Every woman dreams of a perfect wedding- walking down the aisle in your white wedding gown, with all eyes stuck on you while you smile with radiance and seeing your groom-to-be waiting for you in the altar. True enough, getting married to the man you love is the most magical event that can ever happen to the lives of any girls. Everything is just so perfect- you, being the most perfect bride for the most perfect groom of your life. It just feels like you are living in your own fairy tale.



However after the wedding, when you take off your princess-like gown, and when you have to live the next days of your life with the man you chose to be with, would the fairy tale and spark of the love story continue? Would your prince, whom who thought your “knight and shining armour” still protect you against those who’d like to hurt you? Would the magical moment and the happiness you felt before still remain?



Maybe, some couples would say yes. After the wedding, they managed continue living happily with their husbands and wives and building a family of their own. Unfortunately, mine wasn't like that. I was one of those unlucky women who deserves to be happy but wasn't able to get what I deserve. Yes, I was a happy bride before- I was deeply in love with my man, with his sweet words and with his pretentious actions. The man, whom I thought to be with me until I grow old, was just trying to disguise in a sheep’s clothing, trying to conceal his “wolf-like” traits.



Looking back on the year 1998, I was able to meet a guy who seemed to be nice and gentle. Though I know that he is of a different nationality, I immediately trusted him as he showed me and my family nice attitudes that he acquire. It was nothing but a usual love affair experience- talking over the phone most of the time, sending each other snail mails every week and other stuffs people usually do to convey their interest to the person.